Last night I received an anonymous comment on THIS post that I found rather amusing, so I thought I would share it with everyone.
Anonymous wrote: "jesus your blog is so cheezy! i'm sorry but it's so gushy. no one's life is like that. write like a normal person. your blog is almost offensive."
First I find this funny after I just wrote about puking my guts out all weekend and my pregnant stomach shrinking. That definitely is gushy. Second, who the hell is this person to judge my life or anyone else's life?
Then, I felt bad...sorry, in fact for the anonymous commenter. Sorry that they must be so miserable in their own lives that they are unable to be happy for someone else. I have a pretty great life. It hasn't always been this way. My relationship with my husband hasn't always been this good and we have worked damn hard to get where we are. For that I am proud. And guess what, I am damn happy as well. Most of my posts are upbeat and happy because I AM! What a concept huh? Clearly said person isn't so happy in their own life. Clearly said person has no idea what it is like to be this happy and for that I feel bad for them. I have everything to be thankful and happy for. I have a wonderful husband, two amazingly great step-children whom I adore more than anything, and a beautiful little girl growing inside me that I will be meeting in just about two months. I could see where that could be OFFENSIVE.
It cracks me up that there are so many anonymous commenter's out there who won't leave a name or if they do it is some made up nickname trying to be funny but is something only they get and is over looked by all of us in the blogging world. It also cracks me up that these commenter's are stupid enough to think that we don't have trackers on our sites and can figure out their IP addresses. Not only that, but there are some people that have other Internet pages that show what time they make changes and it is funny when the change coincides with the time they are leaving the anonymous comments. Us bloggers aren't as stupid as you think we are. What you don't realize is that we don't give a rats ass what you think or what you have to say and it isn't going to change how we blog or what we write. I know I have said it before and there are many others, if you don't like what you are reading, DON'T READ IT. No one is holding a gun to your head. If you have something to say OWN it. Don't be a pussy and hide behind your words.
That being said, I am a normal person and write like one. I write about the things in my life that are important and make me happy. I write about things that come up here and there, but they are few and far between and I am lucky for that. So if my blog is "cheezy" because I write about my family and how happy I am and what a great pregnancy I am having, so be it. I will "cheez" it up any day of the week. I would take that any day over being miserable and lonely and trying to get to someone by leaving a ridiculous comment. Anonymous commenter, I hope you find some happiness in your own life and stop trying to bring other people down because you are unhappy.