So after I wrote the post about Eli's kids, I started thinking about whether I should of just kept it to myself and not said anything. Not that I don't have those feelings or love them or anything like that. But for the simple fact that I don't know who is reading my blog. I don't know if their mom or her friends/family read and if it is going to cause problems. All I know that by me posting about them, I don't want them and that my intention is simply just to say how much I adore them. Like I have posted before when Eli and I first got together, I have been around Swae since she was 2 and Seth from birth. I was around them at least three times a week. I was (and still am) very attached to those precious kids. Not being around them and having them be a part of my life for six months wasn't easy on me at all. I have a cousin the same age as Swae and being around her reminded me of Swae. Listening to all of Shannon's stories about Brandon reminded of me of Seth because they are only a couple days apart. It wasn't easy being away from them.
I was thinking that maybe I should keep how I feel about them and the fun that we have with them off my blog. But then there is a part of me that thinks, what harm is it? Kasey, their mom, is fully aware of how much I care about the kids and love them. She is fully aware of how good I am with them. And the same goes with her family. But I know that they aren't happy about the situation and I think that could come into play and cause problems. So I just don't really know what to do. The last thing that I need or Eli needs is any more shit coming our way. Things are going far too well and really it would all be unnecessary.
What do you all think?
2 comments:
If you were beating her children or being awful to them then I would have kept that to yourself. You didn't say I love them so much I am going to become their mom and totally take over her role. All you said was that you care about her children and she should be happy about that, irregardless of the situation. Eli could be dating a girl that is a crack whore who doesn't give a crap about his kids. You consider their needs too and aren't just in this relationship for you and Eli...you know they are part of the package deal. Not to mention, weren't you friends with them before...hello you cared about her kids then why would that now change?
In short, um say what you want if you care about the kids! It's your blog remember and if they don't like what they are reading...dont' read it!
I think, as a mom, that if someone loved my kids as much as I do, I would be so very happy. I don't know what the background is because I found you by surfing but that was my first thought. My husband loves my daughter as much as he loves our son. That is precious to me and makes me love him all the more. It was a bit easier because there was no bio father to deal with, I will admit. If they are a part of your life it is natural for you to want to share them.
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