Monday, February 23, 2009

She's Moving

Tara is in Vegas right now visiting Kara. My two best friends...oh how I love them. Turns out that Tara's boyfriend is having the business meeting right now as we speak. Not only that, she finally admitted that she will more than likely be moving to Vegas. It isn't a matter of "if" anymore, but more "when." This is so insane. I have so many mixed feelings.

First, it makes me so happy to think that Kara will have her sister there and will no longer feel so alone. She has a few friends, but no family there. This I know is hard for her, yet she is such a wonderful, strong, amazing person that she has handled the transition and everything incredibly well. Better than anyone else I think could have or would have. It would be wonderful for the two of them to be together. But there is that selfish part of me that is sad knowing that the two people that I am closest with are so far away. It is so unfair how things change in life sometimes. Oh well. Things happen for a reason.

What I am fortunate for is having great friends like them, knowing that distance won't change our friendship at all, and having some place to go visit! I am also fortunate to be blessed with other good friends that still live here, Jill especially. The people that I have kept in my life I hold very dear to my heart. I would do anything for them and I love them tremendously.

I should know more on Tara's possible move later today...makes me nervous!

4 comments:

Excellent Parent said...

i want to move to vegas! Youll have an awsome place to visit and stay now!

kat said...

Isn't it the best to have friends whom you can have a friendship with no matter where they are? You can pick up wherever you have left off without feeling awkward.

He & Me + 3 said...

I know how that is....my BF moved clear across the country. But we still keep in touch and love each other just the same...I just miss seeing her everyday.

Mrs. F said...

I would be so sad if I was in this position. I lived 3 hours away from my BFF for 2 years and it was EXTREMELY hard. But we had lots of phone calls, and lots of visits.

Did she make her decision yet?